In our last article power of asking we have analyzed that there is no harm in asking what you want as you are not going to lose anything. But a very important question for asking is when to ask and whom to ask. As you are very well aware that asking at right time and from the right person and in the right way will increase the chances to get you the things of your desire, Maybe a new assignment, opportunity, pay hike from your boss in office or to get a cup of tea from your wife in the present scenario of lockdown is a challenge as maids are on leave and your wife alone is doing all the household chores.
Normally we don’t usually train our offsprings to work at home as we normally ask them to study. We the normal guys wedded with a homemaker is usually not habitual of doing domestic tasks due to the so-called busy schedule of office and post office follow up. So it is very important when to ask something.
The following are very simple and basics things that need to be kept in mind while asking including timings and the right person from whom you can request the things of your desire.
Deserve first than desire. Make a clear edge with substantial evidence when you are asking something which is scarce and required by many in line.
Ask in person when it is required in place of telephonically or request in the mail.
Ask from the right person who has capable and empowered enough to consider your request.
Ask when a person under consideration is in a nice mood or you find he is at ease and not entangled in any of his problems and able to give you undivided attention.
Make an environment of trust by way of having an open and candid discussion before asking.
Sometimes it is the requirement of time to ask straight to the point when the person you are asking is busy enough and time is a commodity difficult to buy again.
Make a land fertile with appreciation in the home for getting a cup of coffee even after half an hour of tea in lockdown like situation nowadays.
